Birthday Party Guide And Planner

Birthday Party Guide And PlannerHere is some free advice to mothers and other birthday party planners that you are can use in planning for that special birthday party.

Ask for a definite response to any invitations sent out and check the list with your birthday son or daughter. A written invitation is better than a phone call, because the guests have the day, the time, the place, etc. before them to avoid mistakes. The day of your child’s birthday party can be stress free and fun for you as well as for the child if you keep it simple, well organized, and easy on yourself.

Our first suggestion on this last point is that you utilize the services of a birthday party children’s entertainer. Let us show you how inexpensive the children’s entertainer can be. If you try to handle all the entertainment yourself, even if for only two hours, you will have to buy game supplies. of some kind, and prizes for them. You will also have to follow the popular trend of having some small gifts for each child to take home in party bags. You will also want to have balloons around, in some manner or other, because balloons and birthdays go together.

With the children’s entertainer coming to your party, none of these expenditures are required. Every child gets a balloon animal, made during the party, and kept by them to take home. No games or prizes of any kind are required, because the entertainer stays for a full the full party if you go for a full party option. This, coupled with the party food and cake and allowing time for the children to gather on arrival and at the end for finding coats and saying goodbyes, adds up to a very presentable two to two and a half hour party and for most of it, you can be with the other mothers or your friends, knowing the children are enjoying themselves and in good safe hands.

A good children’s entertainer will tell you, when you phone him, that he can do the party anywhere in your home, or a village hall etc. He will adapt himself to any venue you select. However, for your own sake, and that of the children, give it some thought. If you have a wooden or carpeted floored play room, that is the obvious place to have the party. In summer, a lawn or patio is nice, provided it is not in the full glare of the sun. Neither the children nor the performer will do well with a long stay under the bright sun. Provide some sort of shading, if there are no trees.

Be sure to make your phone call to the children’s entertainer well in advance of the date you want. Saturdays and Sundays are busy days for entertainers, but unfortunately, they are also the days almost everybody wants for their party. A week day after school, or a school holiday is a good time for such a party, but if you inquire well ahead of time you stand a good chance of getting the day and time you want. If the party has to be in the living room, remove all breakables, ornaments, and easily tipped over items. It will only take a few minutes and your mind will be easier during the party.

With the children’s entertainer taking most of the work of the party off your hands, be sure to take certain precautions so you do not add to your problems. Make the invitation very specific as to what time the party begins and ends.

The children’s entertainer will take care of all the entertainment and the games, etc. A frequent query from mothers planning parties is about the order in which the party should be planned. Some mothers like to serve the food and ice cream, then the cake, and thus end all the food tasks before the party proper. However the most popular choice is to start with a magic show from the entertainer who will then do a couple of games. This is followed with the party food and the entertainer will once again keep the kids attention with balloon animals for them all whilst they are having their food. After the food comes the birthday cake followed by more party games and prizes with the party finishing off with the children taking home their balloon animals and party bags.

If the room in which the food is served can be a separate one, then you can go all out with decoration. Crepe paper streamers, cut outs of clowns, animals, flowers, etc., Birthday motif paper table cloth, all add to the fun and can be bought quite cheaply or the children’s entertainer can provide for you at a minimal cost. For absolute bottom cost, decorate with cut up funny papers. Make long chains and hang them from the ceiling to the table. Some birthday parties have a small gift at each place, or a small container of party sweets or similar little gifts.

If money is no object, beautiful cakes can be ordered from specialty cake shops., if you are trying to have a fun party for your children at a low cost then a large cake made from a mix can be decorated with gum drops, smarties and colored paper animals, trains, flags, dolls, animal crackers, simply let your imagination go wild. After cutting the objects out of stiff paper, stand them in the frosting all around the edge of the cake. When it is cut, one goes to each child

Don’t forget the possibility of a sandwich loaf cake frosted with colored food coloring. This could be decorated to be a truck, or a train, or even an elephant. Add the necessary pieces cut out of stiff paper, make ears, or wheels, or whatever items your object requires.

For supplies in decoration, or making things to decorate, etc., locate your local discount shop or pound shop. It may be possible to obtain some of your requirements from the entertainer that you hire.

Children eat quicker than adults, especially under party conditions. There is no table chat, as with adults. Games can move quickly, and the time you thought was all accounted for can be left hanging on your hands when they say, “We are tired of THAT game. What else can we do?” So if you decide to prolong the party beyond your own limits then you will need to hire a children’s entertainer so that you can enjoy the party too stress free.

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Tips to Protect Your Home and Family

Our home and our family is the top priority in our life. As much as possible, we do everything we can to protect both our home and family. The rate of crimes has been increasing for the past few years and we can’t even be safe in our own home. That is why we need to do everything we can to have protection in our home. Do this not only for your but for your whole family. Here are some examples on how we can be safe and protected in our home.

It is important that you have the right lock system in your home. There are many different types in the market today that you can choose from. The trick to this is that you find one that is suited to the size of your home and if that company is trusted. Nowadays it is not enough that you padlock and chain your doors. Criminals nowadays have many types of skills that can break in your home. It is important that you have a lock system that can help you out.

Fences have a lot of purpose for our home. You can use it to give your family and home more privacy from your neighbors. If you use the right walls it can also be a decorative part of your house and the most important purpose of fences is that it can serve as protection to us. This is one factor that needs to be on top of your list when you decide to build walls or fences for your home. Make sure that the fences can protect you from intruders and that your gates have a locked system as well.

There is a new form of technology that is getting popular these days that you can use as protection for your home. You can use spy cameras installed your home and use to protect your family. Install it in different parts of your home especially the parts of your home where criminals can climb in and out of your home, like doors and windows. You can connect it into some monitors where you can view it anytime you want. You can also record the videos.

There would be an instance where the intruder is inside your home. When this happens, it is better that you have something to protect yourself like a stun batons. Stun batons are safe for you to use and it can protect you from intruders. Have it hidden in some parts of your home where you know that you can use them in case an intruder that comes in your home. It is also important that you hide if you have kids in your home because if they don’t know how to use it properly it can be dangerous for them.

These are some ways that you can do to protect your home and family. Remember that before you do any of this it is important that you have these tested so that you know that it can be safe to use.

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Finding The Right Homes To Buy Tips

Once a decision to buy a home has been reached, be sure to research the market before going on the search. Look at information on the internet, figure out what is most important and needed in a home, and get familiar with the area before looking at the houses.

Make sure the budget will be able to handle buying a new home. Decide what is most important and what is not. What kind of house is desired is also important. Don’t go and buy a house and not be able to afford it, especially if a first time home buyer. Try to avoid the “house-poor” situation, in other words, a really nice house, but no money.

If being near a school, work public transportation, or anything else like family, doctors, or anything that is important in daily life, denote that.

Preapproval for a mortgage is key. It will help with the lending process and will make the home buying process in itself much easier.

Picking an agent that understands the buyer’s needs is crucial. Getting the advice from friends and and family is a good place to start. Most full time serious agents have web sites these days and it is a good place to begin to get a feel for a real estate agent. Plus, most real estate agents have the feature on their website for you to browse local listings.

When looking to buy a home, take into account that needs will change. For instance, one may be buying as a newlywed couple, but down the road, they may choose to start a family, so finding a home that has space for children would be ideal.

There are other things to consider. Will you be entertaining? Plan to have children? Want to have own private space and how much square footage is really needed? Designate between a closed space that limits noise and an open space one that does not. Want to have a den, office, or library? For me a big garage is important because I like to restore old cars.

For those who already have children, keep in mind that each child doesn’t have to have his or her own bedroom. Be sure to designate a play area for the children so they can have their own space.

Also, keep in mind that safety particularly with children should be a big issue when buying a house. According to the U.S. Consumer Products Safety Commission, accidents in the home account for 2.5 million injuries or death to children a year. Take into consideration even if you do not have children what risks the new house may pose to a child. Does the house have a lot of stairs or is there bad lighting around areas that children could fall? Does the garage door have a motion detector and is the driveway flat? This is important during increment weather. Is the yard fenced?

 

 

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5 Tips to Enjoying Full Time Motherhood

For a lot of us moms, being a stay at home mom is our dream come true but it can be a struggle to enjoy it to its fullest. Often we feel unappreciated, unloved and like we are losing who we are, or used to be anyways. How to be a happy stay at home mom is not something we are taught, we must figure out what works for us. Here are five tips that can help the stay at home mom enjoy her job more.

How To Be A Happy Stay At Home Mom: 5 Tips To Help You Enjoy Full Time Motherhood

How to be a happy stay at home mom tip # 1 is to be proud of what you do. There is that stigma attached to stay at home moms that we spend our days getting coffee with friends or at the mall; or maybe that we spend all day in front of the TV in our pyjamas, never shower and never comb our hair. Yeah right, we know what it is really like. Don’t let other peoples opinions ruin how you feel about being a stay at home mom. Be proud of what you have chosen to do and know that many, many moms would love to have the opportunity to be with their children full time.

How to be a happy stay at home mom tip # 2 is not to dwell on your past life. Yes it was great when you could come and go when you pleased without the need for a babysitter. It was great to have money, sleep in once in a while and spend a rainy day on the coach watching movies. But that was then and this is now. Lots of moms, especially new ones, compare their current life to the one they had before children. This is a useless behaviour since you can’t go back, and honestly would you trade your kids for that former life? Didn’t think so! Count your blessings for your beautiful family.

How to be a happy stay at home mom tip #3 is to make time for your spouse. This is so important an often the first thing to go out the window once kids come into the picture. Date nights are great, but you don’t always need to go through so much trouble. Find ways to connect at home with face-to-face interaction; it doesn’t have to be a romantic getaway soap opera style to benefit from time alone together.

How to be a happy stay at home mom tip #4 is having grown up time. This is not the same as time with your spouse. This is time to interact with other adults besides your spouse. Being a full time mom means having minimal adult conversations on a daily basis, so get together with a girlfriend or two once or twice a month. This gives you something to look forward to and gets you talking in full sentences again!

How to be a happy stay at home mom tip #5 is to work on your own personal development. Many stay at home moms feel like they loose themselves and their self-esteem once they leave the workforce. Find ways to continue to build your self esteem and confidence. You can volunteer with a local charity which will help keep your skills such as time management, organization and service up to date. You can take a night or online course to update your educational credentials. Some moms take a self defence or martial arts class to build self-assurance in themselves. It is increasingly popular today for many moms to start their own small online business to build their independence, improve their skills and help with the family finances.

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How to Have a Clutter Free Home and Make Some Extra Cash Doing It

I don’t know about you but my house always seems to be out of whack. I guess with 4 kids, ages 3-12, a wife that can’t seem to want to get rid of anything, a cat, a dog, turtles, and a gerbil that keeps getting out of his cage, at times or maybe all of the time, I feel totally overwhelmed. Well I guess I can’t blame it all on the family, I have my issues also. My office and garage are also out of whack!

Well come on the journey with me and let’s get our homes and lives back as we follow these simple steps to a clutter free home and life!

The absolute first step in the process of becoming clutter free is to recognize “problem areas”. Now these “problems areas” are not only physical places but also mental places. Let me explain further. “Physical places” are basically your cluttered garage, basement, closets etc. “Mental places” are those mental issues you have with holding on to those items that are “centimental” or that are reminders of something that happened to us in a positive manner 20 years ago. I am an ex football player, and I have been blessed to have been able to play from pee wee leagues all the way to the professional level. Over the years I have collected some cool items, most of which I can just take a picture of and then get rid of it! Now I had a real problem with this, but once I did it, it was done and I really don’t think about it. Make the decision and just GET RID OF IT! Thank me later.

Ok, now that we have gotten over that hurdle, we now need to set goals. Like any other successful way of doing business you first must set goals. Here is an old saying that I like to tell my kids. ” IF YOU AIM AT NOTHING, THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU WILL HIT”. For example: Week 1- clean out closets, box up goodwill/ garage sale items and place boxes in storage. Week 2- Clean out garage, and shelves and place goodwill/ garage sale items in storage. Notice that you have a definite time line as to when to start and complete your projects. Also I threw in another tip to make you some extra money, “Garage Sales”. If you haven’t had one trust me, you will not believe what people will but. “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure”.

I hope this information will get you on the path to a clutter free home and life.

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5 Tips to Make a Home Safe Secure and Senior Friendly

Preparing senior home care for aging or elderly parents can be stressful. It is a lot of responsibility and many families are not completely aware of what steps they should take to ensure that their home is safe and senior-friendly. The following are five important tips which you can use to prepare you house and family for those who need you most;

1) Avoid slips and falls: One of the most concerning aspects of caring for seniors is the fear that they slip, fall and injure themselves. This is an incredibly important point to remember when preparing your house to provide senior home care. One of the best ways to prevent these types of accidents is to add carpet, area rugs and non-slip mats around your home. This should be considered essential for any area of your home that can be slippery such as the bathroom floor, wooden staircase, laundry room and entryways.

2) Have a home inspection done: The elderly can be extremely susceptible to moulds and dust mites. If you feel that your home may have such issues it is important to have a home inspection done before offering senior home care. A thorough home inspection can also help to resolve other issues such as heat loss, air circulation and even electrical dangers all of which should be repaired in order to provide optimal care.

3) Don’t try to do it all: Another important tip to consider when trying to provide senior home care is to realize that no one is capable of doing everything on their own. One of the best ways to prevent injuries, misunderstandings and trials is to involve the entire family as caregivers. The more people who are involved the less likely it is for something to go wrong.

4) Separate medicine cabinets: Some of the tips for providing home care are simple to do and can help to organise your daily life as well as prevent dangerous situations. For example, switching medicine cabinets so that your senior resident has their own can prevent potentially harmful medication mix-ups and confusion.

5) Make some house rules: No smoking, no perfume, no pets and no drop-in visits are good examples of house rules that should be enforced when providing senior home care. Ask family and friends to help you spread the word about your new ways. Depending on the age of your senior family members polluted air and pet dander can lead to serious health complications. And if there are any signs of dementia or Alzheimer’s, then unexpected company can result in confusion and even fear.

 

 

 

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Six Tips For Living With Your Adult Children And Their Family

Being a grandparent and having your children (daughter, son-in-law, and grandchild) live with you is a juggling act. Of course you want to help them and it is nice to see your grandchild grow before you. It is so different from when you were raising your children and were caught up in the moment. Here, you get to sit back and be spectators and hand the children back to their parents for the major care. It has been a blessing seeing my daughter get married and have a baby. It has been special seeing the three of them work as a family unit and watching them grow together.

However, when you have two families under one roof, it is very difficult to find your own space. You find yourself on top of each other and you get under each other’s skin. It has been a difficult time this past year and a half, despite the joys. My family was stunted because they could not grow as a family in their own right.

We went from taking them in, fixing dinner to include them, help them out with the bills. It has been a hard tight rope walk. Finally, they began cooking on their own and we had separate dinners. We let them have their space. At first my husband wanted to know where they were going and when they would be back. He had to learn to back off and let them come and go as they please. It is like you go back to treating them as teenagers and they are now adults. It is a fine balance.

My daughter and her family are moving out this weekend. This has been a long time in coming and tensions were so high here in the home. We were in each other’s space. I am so happy for them to be on their own. They are moving in a small above garage apartment. It is a good first time apartment for them. They will eventually need more space, but this is a start and offers them opportunities they cannot get here at our house. They are closer to more jobs and the metro station. It is a step up for them.

I am very pleased how my daughter has become a mother. She is a very good mother and my son-in-law is a good father and provider. I have no concerns with them moving out. This is a good move for all of us. My husband and I have to continue our struggle with being empty nesters. This is our struggle and should not involve the children.

What can you do if you are in this situation?

  • Give your children space. Do not hover over them as they were when they were adolescents.
  • Be yourself. Give your grandchild the love you want to give them. Sometimes this may mean standing up to your children and voicing your rights as a grandparent.
  • Respect your children’s wishes and allow them to take care of your grandchild. Do not take away their right as parents. Grandparents have the spoiling rights, but you need to let your children set the schedule for their child and know when to back out.
  • Be gentle with each other and know you are two different families with different ways of doing things. Give yourself a break and try not to force the issue.
  • Whenever possible back out when you butt heads. Sometimes it means biting your tongue.
  • Surround yourself with people you can talk about your joys and difficulties.

These are some things that I learned while living with my other family. I hope you can take it in stride. My daughter and I have not always seen eye to eye and we are not the closest. I hope we can get closer now that she is a mother. She is a beautiful caring young woman and I could not have asked for a better daughter and mother of my grandchild.

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First Birthday Party Tips For Parents

Many parents give a lot of attention to their baby’s first birthday party. However, they sometimes forget that their child is too young to actually appreciate their efforts. Below are some tips for parents on how to maximize their child’s first birthday party without breaking the bank while making sure that it’s still memorable.

Document the Event for Years to Come

If there’s one thing a parent should invest in it should be the documentation of a first birthday party. Since a child will be too young to appreciate or even remember his first birthday party, it would make sense for parents to preserve the memory for their child. When the child is older, he will surely appreciate all the effort that his parents put into his first birthday party. If the parents can spare the time, they can even put together a little scrapbook for their child so that their child can go over the story of their first birthday over and over again.

Make Sure the Adults Enjoy the Food and Activities

A first birthday party is more of an adult affair rather than a children’s affair. Of course, it wouldn’t hurt to have a lot of kids present during the party. However, the birthday celebrant will not be able to interact with the other children, much less appreciate magic shows and games. Thus, parents should make sure that activities and food are suited to the friends and family that they will invite to the party.

No Need to Splurge on Giveaways, Decor and Entertainment

While a first birthday party should be special, there’s no need for parents to splurge too much on giveaways, decor and entertainment as their child will be too young to appreciate them anyway, other than in pictures. A simple token of appreciation for the guests will do. The decor can be consistent with the theme and need not be extravagant at all. Lastly, parents can concentrate their budget on the quality of the food and the venue, which their adult guests and relatives will appreciate, rather than the host and entertainment.

Have Grandparents, Relatives and Friends Write Down their Birthday Wishes

Lastly, as part of the legacy that parents may want to leave to their child, they can ask grandparents, relatives and other guests to write down their birthday wishes for the birthday celebrant. If it is part of the documentation package, they can have it recorded on video so that the birthday celebrant will be able to see and hear what their grandparents, aunts and uncles wished for him on his birthday. This sharing of good wishes will surely make the event more memorable both for the guests, the parents and the birthday celebrant.

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Ten Tips For Grandparents Who Are Raising Grandchildren

According to the U.S. Census Bureau in 2000, 5.8 million people were living with grandchildren younger than 18 years old. Among these grandparents, 2.4 million were also grandparent caregivers who had primary responsibility for their grandchildren. These numbers are astounding, and I am one of those grandparents.

So, why are there so many grandparents raising grandchildren today? Unfortunately, social problems, economics and parents fighting wars in foreign countries have a lot to do with the growing number of baby boomers and the like, raising their children’s children. The growing number of alcohol and drug-related problems can attribute to many other factors including incarceration, abuse and neglect, mental illness, catastrophic illness and death. The failing economy that has been in the news spotlight for quite some time now, may lead to loss of employment and homelessness.

Grandchildren who are left in the care of their grandparents may exhibit many social problems themselves, causing great stress on the grandparents who are taking care of them. These problems include: anger, hostility, depression, fear and resentment which may lead to involvement with drugs and alcohol, teen pregnancy and gang association.

Grandparents who are doing their best to help their grandchildren may also suffer the effects of the stress which may be compounded by financial difficulties and health problems. The challenges of raising grandchildren may be great; however, these 10 tips may help you in reducing some of the stresses in your situation.

Getting assistance through local, state and government agencies and organizations may help you with food, financial and health care issues, legal assistance and finding support groups.

Relaxation and stress management techniques can help you gain focus and clarity on the issues and concerns in your household. Taking time to breathe properly and maintaining a gratitude journal are two good ways of helping to reduce stress.

Asking questions can help build stronger relationships and reduce the risk of grandchildren getting into trouble. Asking your grandchildren about their favorite things as well as information about their friends can be very beneficial to you and your grandchildren.

Nutrition and wellness is important for all family members in dealing with stress. Nutrition and wellness keeps us healthy in mind, body and soul.

Discipline strategies that incorporate love, positive reinforcement and consequences help build stronger and healthier relationships, and reduce conflicts and misbehavior.

Communicating, coaching, counseling and conflict resolution are options when issues of stress and emotions are creating conflict and mental health concerns, for both grandparents and grandchildren. Understanding when it’s time to ask for help is a key in preventing situations from escalating.

Organization of time and space are necessary with additional family members in the home. Cleaning out excessive household items as well as keeping calendars of activities can help in this area.

Activities are a great way for grandchildren to reduce the stress they are feeling, and help build communication, leadership and socialization skills. Getting them involved in sports or groups such as scouting programs, are excellent ways to promote self-esteem, team-building and social skills.

Children’s temperament is an area all parents and grandparents should be aware of in order to build effective levels of communication and understanding among family members. Learning about your grandchildren’s personality type is very beneficial.

An understanding of Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs can help explain some of the reactions your grandchildren may be experiencing with their new living arrangements. Understanding the levels can help you relate to their feelings and emotions, and what areas of their lives need to be reinforced.

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Five Ways to Create Balance and Harmony in Your Home

Great parenting requires creating harmony and balance even if you work on a job. Here are five practical parenting tips that have worked for many others.

  1. Clarify your values.

What do you find most important in life? What do you value? Your values will determine how you manage your family and work. Some of the things I value are learning, harmony, creativity, spirituality, research, music, fashion, humor, inspiring others, socializing with family and friends, and creating an inviting environment.

Because we valued learning, for example, it was important that our children attended school, completed homework and mastered concepts.Families who put a high importance on politics, on the other hand, may stress that their children be knowledgeable and conversant about local, national and world news.

  1. Get real.

Before you got married and had a family, you probably had unrealistic expectations of what your life would be like. I know I did. As you watched toddlers throwing tantrums in the grocery store or saw your friends’ kids watching hours of TV, you probably vowed that you were not going to be “that” kind of parent. You probably also thought you’d never yell at your children, spank them or let your children see you get angry.

Get real. If you try to hold to these ridiculous expectations, then you’ll need professional help to untangle the psychological bind you’ve put yourself in.

Your children can survive and thrive with authentic parents who exhibit real emotions and flaws. Along with being real with yourself, you’ll allow your children to be real. Thankfully, having perfect grades and a well-kept room are not guarantees of a happy and fulfilling life. Pay more attention to grooming their insides than their outsides.

If you live long enough to become a grandparent, then you can enjoy the hero’s role. When asked why grandparents and grandchildren get along so well, someone said it’s because they have a common enemy.

  1. Give up the fantasy of being a perfect parent.

You are going to make mistakes, upset your kids, and discover that Mary Poppins was a great movie-but fiction. Since I grew up in the era of perfect TV parents such as Ozzie and Harriet, I began my family with ridiculous expectations.

When I had my second child, I realized I needed help if I were to continue working. We hired a babysitter to help with our children and housekeeping.

  1. Respect the sacredness of your home.

Create a loving environment and keep toxic people and things out. Toxic people are the ones who always make you feel down, depressed, discouraged and tired.

Just as you wouldn’t knowingly expose your family to harmful viruses, poison ivy and caustic fumes, don’t unknowingly expose them to negativity in the form of toxic people. While it may be true that the toxic

people you know are suffering from mental problems, it isn’t your job to cure them, and you certainly can’t drag them to therapy.

You owe it to yourself and your family to keep these toxic people away from you because there is no way to have them in your space without their negatively affecting you. This is true even if some of your relatives fall into this unfortunate group.

  1. Use some of your money to create lasting memories rather than collecting transitory things.

Consider taking your children on memorable vacations or enjoying movies, games and other excursions together. Take lots of pictures of these occasions. The memories you create will be much more valuable and long-lasting than piles of toys and clothes.

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5 Tips to Increase Success for Grandparents Raising Grandchildren With Disabilities!

Are you raising your grandchild with Autism, or other disabilities? Are you having difficulties in financial areas, health insurance areas, or special education? Would you like to learn a few tips about these issues to help you in this journey? This article is filled with 5 tips to make your job easier so that you can enjoy your grandchild.

Tip 1: If your grandchild’s disability qualifies they may be able to receive SSI, which would give you additional income every month. SSI takes into account a parents income when the child is below 18 years old, but exempts grandparent’s income from the consideration. What Social Security does count as income is Child Support for the child, any work of the child, and other public benefits. If you are not receiving any support for the child, and the child’s disability qualifies you may be able to receive SSI for the child. Your Social Security Office may decrease the child’s benefits due to the amount that you are giving the child based on room and board; be sure and check out whether your state does this.

Tip 2: If the child is eligible for SSI they should be eligible for Medicaid to pay for medical costs, and other public benefits. Since many children with disabilities have medical issues this would help decrease your financial responsibility. Keep in mind though that Medicaid may not pay for everything the child needs (counseling, equipment etc), so you may have some expenses out of pocket. Each State may have different benefits under Medicaid, so be sure that you check your States benefits.

Tip 3: If you are retired or on Disability and receiving Social Security your grandchild may be able to receive benefits, based on your lifetime earnings. I would only consider this if the child was found ineligible for SSI, because receiving SSI makes the child eligible for other public benefits.

Tip 4: Check out various disability organizations in your area and see if they have any groups for grandparents raising grandchildren with disabilities. The support you receive could be very helpful, and this could be a way to make friends with other grandparents.

Are you raising your grandchild with Autism, or other disabilities? Are you having difficulties in financial areas, health insurance areas, or special education? Would you like to learn a few tips about these issues to help you in this journey? This article is filled with 5 tips to make your job easier so that you can enjoy your grandchild.

Tip 1: If your grandchild’s disability qualifies they may be able to receive SSI, which would give you additional income every month. SSI takes into account a parents income when the child is below 18 years old, but exempts grandparent’s income from the consideration. What Social Security does count as income is Child Support for the child, any work of the child, and other public benefits. If you are not receiving any support for the child, and the child’s disability qualifies you may be able to receive SSI for the child. Your Social Security Office may decrease the child’s benefits due to the amount that you are giving the child based on room and board; be sure and check out whether your state does this.

Tip 2: If the child is eligible for SSI they should be eligible for Medicaid to pay for medical costs, and other public benefits. Since many children with disabilities have medical issues this would help decrease your financial responsibility. Keep in mind though that Medicaid may not pay for everything the child needs (counseling, equipment etc), so you may have some expenses out of pocket. Each State may have different benefits under Medicaid, so be sure that you check your States benefits.

Tip 3: If you are retired or on Disability and receiving Social Security your grandchild may be able to receive benefits, based on your lifetime earnings. I would only consider this if the child was found ineligible for SSI, because receiving SSI makes the child eligible for other public benefits.

Tip 4: Check out various disability organizations in your area and see if they have any groups for grandparents raising grandchildren with disabilities. The support you receive could be very helpful, and this could be a way to make friends with other grandparents.

I love my role as a grandmother. I’ve been a proud grandparent for 6 years, and I see my role no differently from my daughter and son-in-law’s. We all want the best for the children, and we each have a unique role in their life. If I have to take custody of my grandchildren tomorrow, I am prepared to do so and my children are accepting of that.

In my opinion, grandparents are major influencers in their grandchildren’s life. We have an obligation to ensure our grandchildren are healthy, nourished, clothed, educated, have a roof over their heads, and enjoy life. It’s important that they know we will always take care of them just like mom and dad. It’s also important that we create memories of them spending time with us and give them a sense of security. How many children do you know that protest going to visit their grandparents? There’s a reason for that, and that’s why we have the title “Grand.”

It’s a special relationship, one that differs somewhat from raising our sons and daughters. We have more experience in the parenting field, know the history of the family and most times in a better financial position than we were when we were raising our children. My daughter and son-in-law depend on me to assist in the upbringing of their children. Starting next year, my grandchildren will visit for the summer. I have a great relationship with them now, but I’m looking forward to having them for an extended period of time. I have wonderful memories of me visiting my grandparents, I want to do the same for them.

Here’s a few tips for establishing a great relationship with your grandchildren:

  • Don’t cross the line into parenting. Grandchildren need to understand the role of the adults in their life, and see that you’re on the same page as mom and dad.
  • Establish traditions with your grandchildren.
  • Create memories that are only available with grandma and granddad. I make special pancakes and waffles for their breakfast when they’re visiting. Another favorite is brownies that I cut into various shapes with cookie cutters. My daughter does not attempt to duplicate any of these special moments.
  • If you’re divorced demonstrate that you can co-grandparent.
  • Become involved in their school and after school activities if possible. I make an effort to meet teachers, attend school and sporting events. I want to know who’s responsible for their education, who’s providing child care and I want them to know me.
  • Keep the children on track with bedtimes, bath times, manners and discipline when they’re visiting. You don’t want to cause any setbacks for the parents when they return home.
  • Be creative and tell them a story about your upbringing or their parents.
  • Become the family historian. Talk about other family members and your memories of them.
  • Polish your craft skills. Children love making things for parents and grandparents.
  • Take your grandchildren on a road trips or spend a few days at the beach. They will remember it forever.
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